Let's Thrive Not Strive in 2025!

Happy New Year! (Let’s Thrive Not Strive in 2025) (#44)

Are you tired? I know I get tired…of striving and straining. Tired of doing constant battle with my formidable to do list while the days seem to silently slip by. Even with the best of intentions to maintain balance, I can still find myself on the hamster wheel of life with work, family, friends, and ministry. It can be hard to manage it all without feeling depleted. I once heard the saying, “sleep doesn’t help when it’s your soul that’s tired.” I can relate.

If you’re feeling like that too, let’s make a pact for the new year. Let’s try to have better focus, clearer priorities, and more soul-satisfying rest. Let’s get more of what we really want out of life and let more of the other stuff go. Let’s find out what truly matters and then do more of that!

In Matthew 11:28, Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Let 2025 be the year we trust Him in this. He will not fail you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5; Deuteronomy 31:6).

I will share more Scripture, blog posts, and inspiration throughout the year. But here is a bit of a taste (a flashback of sorts) to whet your appetite and get you thinking:

  • Check out blog post #40, Enough Expectations and consider how we can let go of some of the expectations others have placed upon us or that which we have placed upon others.

We aren’t intended to strive and strain just to keep our heads above water, but rather to float and thrive on top! It is possible! 

Join me this year as we discover what’s truly important: to gain what is life-giving and shed that which drains it. Let this be the year you finally find satisfaction, for good!


Soul BREATH (#24)

As I write this post, I’m struggling a bit. Do you ever have a day when you want to crawl back into bed and pull the covers up over your head…and stay there…for 4 days? I guess you could say, I’ve already had enough of this week. My soul is tired. Sometimes life is like that. The to do lists and the weight of daily responsibilities have a way of taking a toll sometimes.

I think this occurs when one gets too much of something – even if that something is good – and too little of something else. Life gets a bit out of balance. If the Enough Life is the sweet spot between too little (scarcity) and too much (excess), I have to wonder what have I had too little of lately and of what have I had too much?

Too MuchToo Little
Unrealistic expectationsUnstructured time
WorkTime with people I love
HypervigilanceWalking with the dog
Constant productionSoaking time with Jesus
HouseworkSleep

I feel a bit out of breath.

That makes me think of the creation story recorded in the Bible. In the second chapter of Genesis we are told that the LORD God breathed into Adam’s nostrils and Adam became a living being. The breath of life. Yes, that’s what I need right now. My soul needs a fresh breath. The kind of breath that is refreshing and life-giving.

I realize that I have let the ever-present to do lists get more than enough attention at the expense of the things that are life-giving for me, things that nourish my heart and soul. Therefore, I will add life-giving activities to the very top of my To Do List this week…well, right after my nap.

What gives your soul breath? What is life-giving for you right now?