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How to Find Freedom in Truth. (#50)

Today is the 4th of July, the day we celebrate our civic freedoms here in the United States with parades, picnics, and fireworks displays. We celebrate the great American experiment and the unique freedoms codified in our founding documents, such as the freedom to assemble, the freedom of speech, and even the freedom from a state-imposed religion. Although this country is far from perfect, I am grateful for the freedoms we enjoy – products of the radical ideas of our founding fathers and the selfless commitment of men and women who have given so much for the cause of freedom. I am truly grateful.

Yet today I also remember that there is no freedom like the freedom found in Christ! This ultimate freedom is the result of the radical idea of God and His Son’s sacrificial commitment to the cause. Our spiritual freedom came at a high price to Jesus as He willingly stepped out of heaven to take on human form. He was innocent and sinless, yet He sacrificed His earthly life to reclaim ours from the grip of the grave.

Our freedom in Christ has no geographic boundaries, is available to all who would humble themselves to accept it, and it destroys the oppression from our supernatural enemies. This radical supernatural freedom is unlike any other freedom, and it is only possible through faith.

So how does one get this freedom? Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” (John 8:31b-32, NIV, emphasis added) People often quote the second sentence in this passage while neglecting the first. We all want freedom, but the freedom offered by Jesus is an if/then statement.

In John 14:6 Jesus says, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” Truth by definition isn’t variable. It doesn’t change or evolve. If something can change or evolve, then it is by definition something other than truth. Hebrews 13:8 says, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” Jesus is the Truth, and true freedom only comes when we know Him, allow Him to disciple (teach) us, and then actually follow His teaching. I’m afraid that many believers in Christ remain in unnecessary bondage because they do not really know Him and do not hold to His teachings.

Often before coming to know, love, and follow Jesus as Savior and Lord, we search for ways to find peace in our soul and spirit. We may look to human relationships, careers, finances, and accolades. Many get ensnared to addictions such as shopping, gambling, sex or substances like alcohol, drugs, or food. But the truth is that genuine peace-producing freedom cannot be found in the desires of the flesh or obtained through human achievement. There are no gadgets, gizmos, or glam that can satisfy the soul like a genuine, faith-fueled relationship with the God of the Universe.   When we come to Jesus in faith – trusting He is who He said He is and He can and will do what He said He will do – the ultimate freedom is ours. This freedom isn’t a license to sin; it is freedom from sin and it’s eternal effects (Romans 6:1-15). It is the peace that surpasses all human understanding (Philippians 4:7). And this true freedom is only found in one place…a person, Jesus Christ.


Reflection Questions:

  • Are there any areas of my life in which I do not walk in freedom (e.g. addictions, fleshly desires, pride, selfishness)?
  • What lies have I believed about myself or about God? (See this month’s free resource for finding freedom from the lie!)
  • What steps can I take this week to grow in faith through prayer, worship, and Scripture?

Note that the content of this post was originally posted at OneTenMinistries.com/blog on July 4, 2025, under the title “Put Your Best Faith Forward, for FREEDOM!”


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When Sleep Isn’t Enough: Pursuing Soul Rest (#49)

We are complex beings—beautifully and intricately made up of three parts: body, soul, and spirit. Last month, we explored how physical rest fuels the body and mind, helping us thrive and stay productive. But what happens when physical rest isn’t enough?

I once saw a meme that read, “Sleep doesn’t help if it’s your soul that’s tired.” I remember it well because the truth of that simple statement struck me hard, to my core. Many times in my life my soul felt tired, deeply tired. Maybe yours has been too.

Soul Fatigue Is Real

Have you ever felt like you were running on fumes, even after a full night’s sleep? Maybe your body wasn’t what needed rest. Maybe it was your soul. Our souls are made up of our minds, wills, and emotions. Sometimes, perhaps too often, we overload our lives with too much on our proverbial plate—deadlines, demands, family needs, chronic illness, or the constant hum of anxiety. We try to press on, telling ourselves to just push through one more task, one more day, one more week. All the while, our souls are crying out for rest. Friends, this isn’t sustainable. And it isn’t how God designed us to live.

Yes, life brings stress and responsibilities. But we weren’t created to white-knuckle our way through every season. We need margin—not just for our schedules, but also for our souls.

Rest for the Mind and Soul

Mental and cognitive rest isn’t about doing nothing. It’s about making space—to pause, to reset, to breathe. When our minds are constantly stimulated and our thoughts pulled in ten different directions, our souls follow. It’s not just the tasks that wear us down, but the mental load we carry. And we carry a lot these days, don’t we?

We must be intentional about protecting our mental space and refreshing our inner life. Just like our bodies need sleep, our souls need stillness and our minds need quiet.

Who Says We Have to Keep Up This Pace?

We often believe the lie that we have to keep going at this breakneck pace. But who says? Who told you that your worth is measured by your productivity? In Blog Post #24: Soul Breath, I asked, “What gives your soul breath? What is life-giving for you right now?” Have you answered that question for yourself?

There are 1,440 minutes in a day. That’s 10,080 minutes in a week. Even if our schedules are full, there is time to carve out even ten minutes of soul-satisfying rest each day.

  • Take a walk without your phone.
  • Sit in silence and listen for God’s voice.
  • Read a Psalm slowly, not for information, but for connection.
  • Breathe deeply and allow yourself to be instead of do.

To Thrive in 2025, we need more than sleep. We need mental margin and soul rest. That means making space for God to fill us, time to breathe, and permission to stop striving. Let’s be people who rest—not just because we’re tired, but because we’re created to thrive. Let’s make room every day to catch our breath and return to what gives our soul life.


Reflection Questions:

  • What is draining your mental and emotional energy right now?
  • What gives your soul breath?
  • What small change can you make this week to invite rest into your mind and soul?

Read more on this in: Blog Post #24 – Soul Breath


Soul BREATH (#24)

As I write this post, I’m struggling a bit. Do you ever have a day when you want to crawl back into bed and pull the covers up over your head…and stay there…for 4 days? I guess you could say, I’ve already had enough of this week. My soul is tired. Sometimes life is like that. The to do lists and the weight of daily responsibilities have a way of taking a toll sometimes.

I think this occurs when one gets too much of something – even if that something is good – and too little of something else. Life gets a bit out of balance. If the Enough Life is the sweet spot between too little (scarcity) and too much (excess), I have to wonder what have I had too little of lately and of what have I had too much?

Too MuchToo Little
Unrealistic expectationsUnstructured time
WorkTime with people I love
HypervigilanceWalking with the dog
Constant productionSoaking time with Jesus
HouseworkSleep

I feel a bit out of breath.

That makes me think of the creation story recorded in the Bible. In the second chapter of Genesis we are told that the LORD God breathed into Adam’s nostrils and Adam became a living being. The breath of life. Yes, that’s what I need right now. My soul needs a fresh breath. The kind of breath that is refreshing and life-giving.

I realize that I have let the ever-present to do lists get more than enough attention at the expense of the things that are life-giving for me, things that nourish my heart and soul. Therefore, I will add life-giving activities to the very top of my To Do List this week…well, right after my nap.

What gives your soul breath? What is life-giving for you right now?


Enough Noise? (#21)

Thanks to COVID-19, I have been working from home now for about a year. On one hand, it has been marvelous – no commute, no traffic, fewer miles on the car, and days with my adorable fur-baby curled up by my feet. Oh sure, I miss seeing the in-person faces of my wonderful team and the convenience of printing on demand. But the thing that my soul misses most is the processing time in the car. It was me time. Time to think, pray, learn (podcasts, anyone?), strategize, and solve problems was a precious gift I never truly appreciated until now.

But often, by the end of the week, I just craved quiet. I could not put one more bit or byte in my brain. I had had enough…my soul was weary. You know what I mean. So, on those days I would drive home in silence. Beautiful silence. No thinking, no podcasts, no solving problems. Just quiet. On summer evenings when traffic was light and the air was warm, I would make that drive home with the windows down and the sunroof open, basking in the white noise of the breeze. Ah, quiet.

You see our souls are on the front lines, taking hits every day from things like relentless emails, phone calls, to do lists, texts, social media, marketing messages, images, news, and everything else that clamors for our attention. I call that the noise of life. Most days we can handle it and it’s enjoyable, productive, even energizing. But we must know when our soul says, “enough, please, enough.” When the noise in our lives exceeds the peace.

We may not be able to stop the noise, but we can take a time out. We can be careful about the mechanisms that funnel the noise to us. We can make technology serve us instead of the other way around. We must be mindful of our souls. And when the noise in our soul is creeping past enough, we need to make time for quiet, solitude and peace. We must create space for our souls to breathe and our minds to productively rest. We must be kind to our souls.

So, when you have had enough of the noise of life and just need a soul break, I recommend:

  • Listening to Soaking Music (just search YouTube, you’ll see)
  • Listening to nature sounds – like waves or birds – or better yet go into nature and listen to the sounds firsthand (you can find these also on YouTube and there are also several apps you can download)
  • Indulging in something beautiful – artwork, a sunset, or a sunrise
  • Buying yourself flowers and spending 10 minutes just looking at them, really seeing their colors and design, inhale deeply
  • Praying
  • Taking a break from all electronic devices, put social media aside for a bit and play a couple of games of solitaire – with an actual deck of cards.
  • Taking a long drive with the windows down, the sunroof open, and the breeze whipping through your hair.

How do you care for your soul?