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The Call to Stop Striving and Start Thriving. (#52)

As we look back over this year, we see a single thread woven through every lesson, challenge, and invitation: the call to stop striving and start thriving. We began the year exhausted and longing for rest, unsure how to juggle our responsibilities and spiritual health. Yet month by month, the Lord gently led us on a journey toward peace, purpose, and freedom.

At the beginning of the year, I asked if you were weary—tired of running, tired of juggling, tired of constant demands that drain the best of life from your soul? Jesus’ invitation in Matthew 11:28 met us there: “Come to Me… and I will give you rest.” We longed to make 2025 a year of true thriving, not endless striving.

As we embraced this intentional reflection, we began to see how our culture’s obsession with productivity fuels our exhaustion. We learned that constant activity does not produce a flourishing life. In fact, stillness is often the most productive choice we can make. By honoring God’s call to “Be still, and know that I am God,” we made room for our minds to reset, our spirits to settle, and our creativity to return. We learned to not only give our bodies sleep—but also to provide rest for our souls.

Early in the year we paused to examine the rock we’ve been pushing—those burdens, expectations, and definitions of success that drain us of joy. We evaluated whether our ladders were leaning against the right walls, or if we’d been climbing toward someone else’s idea of success. We discovered that when we spend our time, energy, and attention on pursuits that aren’t aligned with God’s calling for us, we pay a steep opportunity cost—trading the life we want for one we were never meant to live.

We recognized how material things, schedules, and expectations silently drain us. The intangible cost of our tangibles surprised us: the emotional load of maintaining our stuff, the time lost to managing it, the comparison it fuels, the way it steals joy and rest. That awareness deepened through my deeply personal journey of being forced to downsize—moving from a full home to a small apartment with very little notice. This experience became a holy purge, a forced confrontation with what really matters. We realized how quickly the things we’ve spent decades accumulating can vanish—and how freeing it feels when they do.

Through that refining fire, we learned the value of living with less while loving with more. We remembered Jesus’ words about storing treasures in heaven, not in storage bins. We saw that what endures is relationship, community, and faith—not stuff. On the other side of the loss, grief, and the overwhelming swirl of change, we emerged with a renewed commitment to “enough.” Not scarcity, not excess—just the beauty of soul-satisfying enough.

Amid all this, we also reflected on the deeper freedom we long for: freedom in truth. As we celebrated Independence Day, we acknowledged that while earthly freedoms are meaningful, the freedom found in Jesus is unmatched. It is not political or circumstantial; it is spiritual. Jesus, who is the Truth, invites us into a freedom that is experienced through obedience, discipleship, and trust. We recognized that many of us remain bound—not because freedom isn’t available, but because we don’t fully walk in the truth that sets us free. Faith, we learned, is the pathway to ultimate liberation.

Throughout this year, God gently guided us away from striving and toward thriving. He exposed our misplaced pursuits, invited us into rest, freed us from lies, and led us to release our grip on the things that drain us. He reminded us that the life He offers is not one of burnout, bondage, or busyness, but of freedom, clarity, purpose, and peace.

And now, standing on this side of the journey, we can say with conviction:
We are enough because He is enough.
We can rest because He is faithful.
We can stop striving because He is our source.
We can thrive because in Him we have all that we need.

As we reflect on the articles of this past year, we see that every step has called us back to Jesus—the One who frees us, sustains us, shapes us, and lovingly teaches us how to live with open hands and an open heart. May we continue to walk in His freedom, rest in His presence, and trust that the life He calls us to is not one of proving, producing, or performing—but one of abiding, flourishing, and becoming who He designed us to be.

As we look back over this year, we recognize a gentle thread woven through every lesson, every challenge, and every moment of growth: the faithfulness of God. Again and again, He has invited us to trust Him more deeply, to anchor ourselves not in what we see, but in who He is. Like Abraham, who “believed the Lord, and He credited it to him as righteousness” (Genesis 15:6), we, too, are learning to take God at His word—to let belief become the soil where obedience grows.

We remember the words of Paul, reminding us that we “walk by faith, not by sight” (2 Corinthians 5:7). And as we trace the path behind us and prepare for the one ahead, we hold fast to God’s promise that “He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus” (Philippians 1:6).

Our year has been shaped by His steadfast hand, and we step into what’s next with renewed confidence that He is guiding, forming, and sustaining us every step of the way.

Closing Prayer

Heavenly Father, we thank You for Your presence that has carried us through this year. Thank You for every reminder that You are trustworthy, every moment when You strengthened our faith, and every place where You invited us to grow. As we enter a new season and a new year, we ask that You deepen our belief, steady our steps, and align our hearts with Yours. Teach us to listen for Your voice, respond with courage, and rest in Your unfailing love. We offer this year—past, present, and future—into Your hands. May our lives bring You glory. Amen.


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From Stuff to Enough. (#51)

When I wrote July’s article on the topic of freedom, I had no idea that I was about to embark on my own process toward a form of unexpected, and at the time unwanted, freedom. Since then, I’ve had a fresh opportunity to walk the talk as I was forced to once again live out every blog post and article I’ve ever written, every topic I’ve ever taught, and every prayer I’ve ever uttered asking God to make me more like Jesus.

My life changed in an instant, and many of the days and weeks that followed were consumed with paralyzing shock, sometimes crippling overwhelm, and layers of previously unimaginable grief. It was a journey, walked moment by moment, while leaning into my place of “enough.” I needed to focus on navigating all that was happening and maintain my sanity in the midst of the storm; thus, my silence for the past few months.

This season required a move from a very full 3,000 square foot home into a lovely but much smaller 1,200 square foot apartment. I only had two days to pack up all my worldly possessions. Things passively accumulated over decades now demanded rapid-fire decision-making…what to keep, what to give to family and friends, what to donate, and what to trash. The word overwhelm doesn’t come close to what I experienced. The purge was real…and real fast. I spent a half century accumulating things, which now I simply could not take with me.

I prioritized keeping only the items which truly add value to my life and which I have recently used. Several carloads of items were donated, dozens of bags of trash, and even several boxes of donation-worthy items ended up in the trash out of sheer exhaustion and lack of time.

I thought about all the money I spent on this stuff and all of the hours I worked to pay for it. Gone.

Two friends were simultaneously in the process of moving their respective parents from their long-term homes into assisted living facilities. They too lamented being inundated by stuff accumulated over the years: items their parents thought would be useful again one day, grow in valuable someday, or be coveted heirloom items. Yet here they were, sifting through a lifetime of stuff and making decisions about what was enough, just like I was.

Some of the stuff was “just in case I ever need it” items. Some were “when I get around to doing this” items. Some were sentimental. Some items were graduate school textbooks that I thought I might refer back to someday. Some were clothes that I realistically won’t ever wear again. All of it was taking up physical and mental space in my life. Oh, there was value in some of the items…just not much value for me anymore.

On the other side of all that madness, I had to ask myself some very pertinent questions:

  • If I never got around to using it, was it worth buying?
  • If I never got the book read, did I really need to spend the money on?
  • What was the cost (financial, mental, storage space) of carrying this inventory of stuff – buying it, storing it, cleaning it, moving it, etc.?
  • Is there an underlying fear of lack associated with the accumulation of things or a reticence to part with them?
  • Do I own things, or do my things own me?

Jesus taught that we should invest in what moths and rust cannot destroy. Like building authentic relationships, loving one another well, and carrying one another’s burdens. He taught that we should be generous with our time, talents, and treasures to help spread the good news about Him and to help those with fewer financial resources.

Jesus said, “Don’t store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal. But store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys, and where thieves don’t break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” (Matthew 6: 19-21 CSB) To paraphrase: “you can’t take it with you, but you can send it on ahead.”

The truth is that “moths and rust” do destroy the things of this earth…fashions change, technology advances, and the kids just don’t want those heirloom items.

This process made me evaluate what is truly important. It may sound cliché, but stuff fades and tarnishes. Yet the love that has been poured out to me from my tribe – my family, friends, and church – are treasured gifts that have enriched my soul forever.

In this process, I learned what is really important. I learned who my true friends are and made some precious new friends along the way. I saw the true church – the people who gather together to love Jesus – actually be the church. And I experienced an outpouring of love and support from my family and friends that really healed an unknown hurt. I also found it was good, right, and healthy to end other relationships.

Sometimes you need a significant moment in life to remind you what is truly important. The hard things in life can be the best teachers. Often, we hold too tightly to the things of this world and spend our time, energy and finances on accumulating what cannot last.

As a result, I have gone from all that stuff to a life of ENOUGH! I renewed my commitment to living the Enough Life…not lack or scarcity, but also not wasting resources on accumulating and storing excess. I am pleased to report that on this side of the hardship I am so happy. I’m glad to be free of all that I parted with, and I feel a freedom and peace I haven’t had in decades. My heart is so full…the kind of full that moths and rust cannot destroy and thieves cannot break in and steal.

Reflection Questions:

  • What was the cost (financial, mental, storage space) of carrying the inventory of stuff in your life – buying it, storing it, cleaning it, moving it, etc.? Is it worth it?
  • Is there an underlying fear of lack associated with the accumulation of things or a reticence to part with them?
  • Do I own things, or do my things own me?
  • Do I cherish things more than people?

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How to Find Freedom in Truth. (#50)

Today is the 4th of July, the day we celebrate our civic freedoms here in the United States with parades, picnics, and fireworks displays. We celebrate the great American experiment and the unique freedoms codified in our founding documents, such as the freedom to assemble, the freedom of speech, and even the freedom from a state-imposed religion. Although this country is far from perfect, I am grateful for the freedoms we enjoy – products of the radical ideas of our founding fathers and the selfless commitment of men and women who have given so much for the cause of freedom. I am truly grateful.

Yet today I also remember that there is no freedom like the freedom found in Christ! This ultimate freedom is the result of the radical idea of God and His Son’s sacrificial commitment to the cause. Our spiritual freedom came at a high price to Jesus as He willingly stepped out of heaven to take on human form. He was innocent and sinless, yet He sacrificed His earthly life to reclaim ours from the grip of the grave.

Our freedom in Christ has no geographic boundaries, is available to all who would humble themselves to accept it, and it destroys the oppression from our supernatural enemies. This radical supernatural freedom is unlike any other freedom, and it is only possible through faith.

So how does one get this freedom? Jesus said, “If you hold to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” (John 8:31b-32, NIV, emphasis added) People often quote the second sentence in this passage while neglecting the first. We all want freedom, but the freedom offered by Jesus is an if/then statement.

In John 14:6 Jesus says, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” Truth by definition isn’t variable. It doesn’t change or evolve. If something can change or evolve, then it is by definition something other than truth. Hebrews 13:8 says, “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” Jesus is the Truth, and true freedom only comes when we know Him, allow Him to disciple (teach) us, and then actually follow His teaching. I’m afraid that many believers in Christ remain in unnecessary bondage because they do not really know Him and do not hold to His teachings.

Often before coming to know, love, and follow Jesus as Savior and Lord, we search for ways to find peace in our soul and spirit. We may look to human relationships, careers, finances, and accolades. Many get ensnared to addictions such as shopping, gambling, sex or substances like alcohol, drugs, or food. But the truth is that genuine peace-producing freedom cannot be found in the desires of the flesh or obtained through human achievement. There are no gadgets, gizmos, or glam that can satisfy the soul like a genuine, faith-fueled relationship with the God of the Universe.   When we come to Jesus in faith – trusting He is who He said He is and He can and will do what He said He will do – the ultimate freedom is ours. This freedom isn’t a license to sin; it is freedom from sin and it’s eternal effects (Romans 6:1-15). It is the peace that surpasses all human understanding (Philippians 4:7). And this true freedom is only found in one place…a person, Jesus Christ.


Reflection Questions:

  • Are there any areas of my life in which I do not walk in freedom (e.g. addictions, fleshly desires, pride, selfishness)?
  • What lies have I believed about myself or about God? (See this month’s free resource for finding freedom from the lie!)
  • What steps can I take this week to grow in faith through prayer, worship, and Scripture?

Note that the content of this post was originally posted at OneTenMinistries.com/blog on July 4, 2025, under the title “Put Your Best Faith Forward, for FREEDOM!”


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When Sleep Isn’t Enough: Pursuing Soul Rest (#49)

We are complex beings—beautifully and intricately made up of three parts: body, soul, and spirit. Last month, we explored how physical rest fuels the body and mind, helping us thrive and stay productive. But what happens when physical rest isn’t enough?

I once saw a meme that read, “Sleep doesn’t help if it’s your soul that’s tired.” I remember it well because the truth of that simple statement struck me hard, to my core. Many times in my life my soul felt tired, deeply tired. Maybe yours has been too.

Soul Fatigue Is Real

Have you ever felt like you were running on fumes, even after a full night’s sleep? Maybe your body wasn’t what needed rest. Maybe it was your soul. Our souls are made up of our minds, wills, and emotions. Sometimes, perhaps too often, we overload our lives with too much on our proverbial plate—deadlines, demands, family needs, chronic illness, or the constant hum of anxiety. We try to press on, telling ourselves to just push through one more task, one more day, one more week. All the while, our souls are crying out for rest. Friends, this isn’t sustainable. And it isn’t how God designed us to live.

Yes, life brings stress and responsibilities. But we weren’t created to white-knuckle our way through every season. We need margin—not just for our schedules, but also for our souls.

Rest for the Mind and Soul

Mental and cognitive rest isn’t about doing nothing. It’s about making space—to pause, to reset, to breathe. When our minds are constantly stimulated and our thoughts pulled in ten different directions, our souls follow. It’s not just the tasks that wear us down, but the mental load we carry. And we carry a lot these days, don’t we?

We must be intentional about protecting our mental space and refreshing our inner life. Just like our bodies need sleep, our souls need stillness and our minds need quiet.

Who Says We Have to Keep Up This Pace?

We often believe the lie that we have to keep going at this breakneck pace. But who says? Who told you that your worth is measured by your productivity? In Blog Post #24: Soul Breath, I asked, “What gives your soul breath? What is life-giving for you right now?” Have you answered that question for yourself?

There are 1,440 minutes in a day. That’s 10,080 minutes in a week. Even if our schedules are full, there is time to carve out even ten minutes of soul-satisfying rest each day.

  • Take a walk without your phone.
  • Sit in silence and listen for God’s voice.
  • Read a Psalm slowly, not for information, but for connection.
  • Breathe deeply and allow yourself to be instead of do.

To Thrive in 2025, we need more than sleep. We need mental margin and soul rest. That means making space for God to fill us, time to breathe, and permission to stop striving. Let’s be people who rest—not just because we’re tired, but because we’re created to thrive. Let’s make room every day to catch our breath and return to what gives our soul life.


Reflection Questions:

  • What is draining your mental and emotional energy right now?
  • What gives your soul breath?
  • What small change can you make this week to invite rest into your mind and soul?

Read more on this in: Blog Post #24 – Soul Breath


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The Intangible Cost of Tangibles (#48)

Last month we talked about the importance of rest. One often overlooked area of our lives which can subtly steal our time and inhibit our rest is the intangible cost of maintaining our tangibles.

In a world where success is often measured by the number of zeroes in our bank accounts and the size of our homes, it’s easy to overlook the hidden costs of our material pursuits. We’re surrounded by messages urging us to buy more, upgrade constantly, and equate possession with happiness. But what we rarely talk about is the intangible price we pay in the process—costs that don’t show up on receipts or credit card statements yet strain our time, attention, energy, and yes even wallets.

Material things, by nature, offer temporary satisfaction. The thrill of a new purchase fades quickly, replaced by the urge for something newer, better, or more expensive. This cycle creates a quiet, creeping dissatisfaction. Instead of filling a void, our possessions often magnify it. The more we chase after material wealth, the more elusive true contentment becomes.

One of the most profound intangible costs is time. Time spent working overtime to afford luxuries, time sacrificed on weekends for extra income, or time lost to the stress and maintenance of storing and managing more things. In the pursuit of material gain, we often trade away moments with loved ones, peace of mind, and opportunities for personal growth or rest.

There’s also an emotional toll. Comparison culture, fueled by social media, turns possessions into status symbols. It creates pressure to keep up, even when it leads to debt, anxiety, or burnout. Our self-worth can become entangled with what we own rather than who we are. This can chip away at self-esteem and authenticity, leading to a sense of disconnection from what truly matters.

Relationships can suffer, too. When material goals take precedence, people may become secondary. Friendships, family bonds, and even the relationship with oneself can be strained or neglected. It’s ironic how we often acquire things to impress or connect with others, yet those very pursuits can isolate us.

This isn’t a call to reject all material comforts—there’s nothing wrong with enjoying nice things. But recognizing their intangible costs helps us make more mindful choices. When we shift focus from what we own to how we live, from accumulating to experiencing, and from our possessions to our true identity, we start to reclaim our time, peace, and purpose.

True wealth isn’t measured in possessions but in freedom, connection, and fulfillment. And those, ironically, are often found in the things we can’t buy. I wrote two short blog posts related to this topic which you may enjoy. Check out The Secret Sauce (#17) and Rich Beyond Reason (#41).

Take time this month to consider the cost – to your mind, soul, wallet, time, and peace – of the material possessions you have. While the costs of our tangibles might be intangible, they can still be calculated. Only you can decide if the cost is worth the price.